YES, I’M A KINKY PERSON – and won’t be changing anytime soon.

Hello – And thank you for dropping by! – Always happy to chat with fellow kinksters (and the vanilla’s amongst you). In attendance at most Irish BDSM events and munches. Enjoying local events ‘Nimhneach’, ‘Glitter-Bomb’, ‘Sub-Rosa’ & ‘Libertine’).

A separated guy who identified that as long as you stay in a relationship that isn’t meeting your needs …you’re in a relationship that isn’t meeting your needs!! I have also learned that to trust yourself means living out what you already know to be true…  I do a good job keeping myself happy – and full sure I don’t have to rely on any other person for myself to feel that way!

Yes, I have learned from my own mistakes – Like most people who like to think they’re right about what they believe about themselves, I do too. However, like most people I have become my kindest, most ethical self only after I have already made a complete tit of myself in front of others!

Yes, I have learned ‘a bit’ since I ‘came out’ back in 2002, but as the bold Socrates once said ““The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.”